The war of words is underway in Minnesota (and many other states across the country) as
ballots will soon give voters the choice on whether to establish a constitutional ban on same-sex marriages. Most ballot initiatives go something like this: “Do you favor a constitutional amendment that will ban same-sex marriage?” Unfortunately, very few voters recognize this question as a false dichotomy. In other words, it's a question that has at least three valid answers but only allows two options for answering. My wife and I used to give our children false dichotomies all the time. We'd ask, “Do you want to go to bed by yourself, or do you want me to carry you to bed?” That worked really well until they were about ten, when they first recognized there was a third option we weren’t giving them – not going to bed at all.
So what are the three valid answers to the same-sex marriage amendment?
1.) Yes, I favor same-sex marriage and vote against the amendment.
2.) No, I oppose same-sex marriage and vote in favor of the amendment.
3.) I oppose same-sex marriage, but I also oppose changing the constitution.
This third group is in an unusual position of having to choose which is worse, allowing same sex marriage or changing the constitution.